The reason why everyone hyped up the Eurasian beauty myth was because a bunch of Asian women decided back in the 1970’s that Asian men were ugly and low status and that everyone made fun of them and that it was so much better to be fetishized by the White racist powered class than suffer from perpetual isolation.
In order to cover up this disparity, Asian women started saying that half Asians were all superior despite the fact that Asian women can essentially only get the bottom tier of white men (which is why almost every white guy you see with an Asian woman is bald; because bald men target women with no standards). The problem was that no other biracial group says this. Blacks mixed with whites don’t say this. Nor do Latin and whites. Iranians and blacks. In fact, not even the non-Asian mothers of half Asian children, who have Asian husbands, say this. It is exclusive to White men and Asian women – who are drawn to each other for incredibly disturbing reasons, so, unlike other mixed-race groups, they make up incredible myths about Hapas, most of which are damaging.
All those other groups, mixed groups, have produced children that have done great things. Like the presidency. In fact, Barack Obama was raised by an Asian male / white female couple. His looks had nothing to do with it.
Half Asians are “beautiful” is just slang for – I hope they’re beautiful because I sure as hell will never touch an Asian male. And since many Asian women cannot tell the difference between a half Asian male and a full one, they treat us exactly the same in public and online. Not that it makes a difference.
Most Half Asian boys are raised in worlds where Asian men don’t reproduce, and Asian women only reproduce with White men (especially, the worst kinds; old, bald, ugly, unattractive, short), and we get bullied and called ladyboys and made fun of for being Asian in this same world, while our mothers and aunts and cousins are with White males. By the time we enter teenager years, if it’s not already too late, it becomes fairly evident where Asian and Eurasian men stand in society.
Asian people are lacking facial bones that prevents them from having truly defined faces in the majority of cases – which also effects Asian women’s attractiveness (or at least in their minds, since Asian women struggle with being seen as beautiful compared to more voluptious non-Asian women); meaning that Asian women will generally only attract white men who cannot get non-Asian women and prey on Asian women’s self hatred, and will rely heavily on Asian women who hate themselves, in order to form relationships, where White men are considered better than Asian men, simply because everybody is better than Asian men.
Asian women, being largely asexual, will have no problem sleeping with an old, bald, ugly white man, because in Asian culture, everything is pragmatic, where sex is merely an exchange, and Asian women have evolved over millenia into this group of people who do not see love as love, and do not care about looks, only status, and money; hence the famous Chinese addage: “I would rather cry in the back of a BMW, than smile on the back of a bicycle.”
So for an Asian woman to sleep with and marry the literal bottom of the barrel white men in society – the nerds, short men, rejects, autists, physically unattractive, racist, mentally ill – they have no qualms about this, because in their mind, this is merely duty; duty to integrate. It’s either sleep with Asian men, or sleep with horrifically ugly White men, and generally the latter pick is more appealing – because they can get a white man, but don’t have to sleep with him.
White women don’t want half asian children at all. White women don’t seem to care about having beautiful Eurasian children – unless the Asian man is really, really hot, or in other cases, because he’s just a sweet, loving person.
Even Kelly Chong PhD, author of this now-famous paper, admitted that Asian men have to be really hot to get White women (or at least they had to, back in the 70’s).
From page 198.
In fact most white women see Eurasian men as Asian, and since I would venture that 50% of Half Asians look VERY ASIAN, that means that 50% of Eurasian men fail by default at exactly what their mothers wanted – for them to look white.
Also, if Asian women like Eurasian men so much – why don’t they marry them?
Because Eurasian plus Asian equals Asian looking children, and a Eurasian male plus an Asian woman equals just another low status perpetual foreigner couple.
The entire basis for being Eurasian is: be good looking, don’t look fully Asian, or just die.
Essentially, the bar for being Eurasian is simply: be good looking, ignore that your parents are divorced, ignore that your father is a huge racist, ignore that your mother is mentally ill, ignore that people make fun of you for being abnormal. Just be good looking. Don’t worry about school. Don’t worry about life. Just be good looking.
The “happy” Half Asians you know are the ones whose mothers selected very good looking tall white men (and even that is not a guarantee). These Hapas essentially self-select and live lives coasting by on their non-Asian privilege. The unsuccessful, Asian looking ones just die or disappear. That’s why our suicide rate is twice as high as either Asians or Whites. The ones that survive are the Half Asians who look non-Asian.
Even the “best” half Asian men wind up doing stuff like Jon Hamilton or Krit McClean or Max Ando, being 30 years old, unmarried, and self deprecating, while their half Asian sisters reproduce. The extreme pressure against Asian looking men means that Asian looking men are subject to constant jokes, being reminded of their Asianness, and being dumped in favor of white men – because the standard is white, and no sane woman would take a half Asian man over a full White man, just like his mother did.
So most Asian women see another Eurasian son of other Asian women and openly mock and harass them, like they did to Jon Hamilton.
Saying that Eurasians are beautiful is just a scam to keep people from prying into their unmatched outmarriage rate that is more often that not, loveless, hateful and just an angry, bitter relationship between a woman who hates Asians and a man who just wanted to feel big and is more often than not an over the top racist who wanted to feel big for being white, before he decided to beat the shit out of his Asian girlfriend or wife after realizing that she was incredibly nagging and that she wasn’t really attractive at all.
That’s why you have so many Half Asians that just look basic, either basic Latino or basic White, and they think it’s the greatest thing ever. Just looking non-Asian is a victory for them. And it’s incredibly dangerous, since so many half Asians are incredibly arrogant for absolutely no reason other than the fact that they reverted to the mean. The non-Asian mean.
If you don’t believe me, find the next Eurasian you meet and judge for yourself. The ones who look whiter are happier. The ones who look Asian, not so much. The ones with Asian mothers have a noxious cloud about them, the ones with Asian fathers are more actualized. And yes, happier.
That’s why there are literally hundreds of thousands of Half Asian men running around now thinking they are the greatest thing on earth, yet so many are deeply insecure people, more racist than their parents, and prone to have mental breakdowns on telling them that they look Asian. That’s why you have Half Asians who will do everything in their power to prove that they aren’t Asian, and that they’re just as white as their dads.
Final thing: Google Half Asian and tell me what you see. Only women.
It’s no secret Asian women secretly hope for daughters, because the Eurasian son is way too high risk. Because they know that Eurasian women serve a purpose in society while Eurasian males need… special consideration. We’re invisible, overrated, and the most famous Eurasian males of all time, for whatever reason, have Asian dads. As cute and beautiful as hapa kids are, the hair thickens up, the features change, skin changes and overnight previously beautiful Eurasian babies just become average looking; the difference is that they were told they were superior for being half white, and that it’s always the white dad who gets the Asian mom, so what happens is anyone’s guess. I was gorgeous as a kid until I just transformed to fully Asian looking.
The real solution is showing Asian males in a more positive light. But with Asian women happy to marry balding, unattractive white men for the hopes of having mixed kids is a disaster, because literally all kids are cute of every ethnicity, it’s too wishy washy.
What helped me is understanding that Asian men are sexually attractive due to dark features and narrow eyes; but it took me 30 years to do it. Kids don’t have that liberty and by the time the psychosexual nightmare of an upbringing is over you’re stuck with a couple of Asian looking young men who hate Asian men, hate Asians, want to be white like their dads, and think they’re all Keanu Reeves despite looking like discount Rob Schneiders. This entitlement to being some kind of masterrace yet being volatile and exposed to anti-Asian racism plus the weirdo dynamic of the creepy white dad – it’s hot sauce.
That’s the best I can sum it up. Beautiful kids aren’t enough to fight racism. True elgalitarianism is. But it’s not here. So as many happy Hapas you can pretend exist – like the TerryTV’s and Daniel Henney’s who run off to Asia to escape racism and sexual discrimination, and don’t want to admit that it’s weird that 95% of Half Asians have a White dad and an Asian mom – you really, really, honestly think that there’s not going to be some really, really bad apples in the bunch?
The only net-negative here is Asianness. It’s a bad thing. Most Hapas understand this fundamentally.
So the real, insane danger is that Asian women hope to GOD that their children look non-Asian. They look at a Hapa baby and say “I’m so glad he has light features and I hope it stays that way.”
And when saying that you’ve essentially already doomed your child.
Asians are not wanted by society; whites are. Half-Asians maybe are wanted…. if they don’t look Asian. And our mothers knew that. Oh well.