Most Asian women don’t want hapa men because they’d rather be with an Asian guy or a white guy. More often a white male, and since Half Asian men are still Asian men – most Asian women flat out avoid them, because White society still views Half Asian men as representing the negative, foreign stereotypes of Asian males – and White men will still use a half-Asian male’s heritage to demean him – and this means a tremendous status loss for Asian women.
Why date half-Asian when you can date White? White men, after all, are the most handsome, and half-Asian men are merely the best case scenario when producing a biracial child from an Asian woman’s womb. We are essentially Chinese knockoffs of the real thing.
Dating a Hapa male means 3/4 Asian sons who are just Asian sons. Many Asian women actively denigrate hapa men just the same (not knowing they are Hapa) – because for an Asian woman to be with a Hapa male who looks Asian means a massive drop in status and losing her privilege with white men. Moreover, Hapa men get denigrated by Western society, as Asian males; hence Daniel Henney had to move to Asia for a career.
Daniel Henney, Dennis Oh, Ricky Kim, Vivian Dawson, TerryTV (Terry Song), Max D. Capo – all of these men moved to Asia, despite being “beautiful Eurasian men.”
Also a lot of Asian women will use Hapa men as a “step up,” but Hapa men (the 10% that are good looking enough – or white passing enough – to date) will feel turned off by this and avoid Asian women altogether, meaning that white passing Eurasian men might use Asian women for a cheap thrill but just wind up dumping them for a white woman. The other Asian looking Eurasian men will attempt to date white or black women if they can (to the anger of their Asian mothers who hate white women), or will run off to Asia to date Asian women, like Ricky Kim, Daniel Henney, etc, as mentioned above.
Hapa men seem to know this subconsciously, hence many celebrity Half Asian men run off to Asia to work on “careers” and wind up getting married to Asian women just the same; Ricky Kim, Daniel Henney, Vivian Dawson, again, etc. All with Asian women.
You would think that men with the famed looks beyond anything imaginable would be able to date white, black or Latina Victoria’s Secret models. But they don’t. Asian looking Hapa men (even the ones who don’t look Asian) are literally NOWHERE in society.
Asian women, essentially, are the choice women of MRAs, anti-feminists, racists, and flat out bottom of the barrel white men who have no other choice but to “go Asian.”
A lot of hapas like me avoid Asian women as long as we could just because the stigma of being with the race of women who seem to ooze hatred, insecurity and Tiger-mom like viciousness at the world seems in our better interest; this is the same reason good looking, straight, normal white men, and even Asian men, avoid Asian women, because it’s just too high risk balancing their insecurity, their white worship, and the stigma of being with one (it’s seen as being manipulative, too easy, or not rewarding) as a means to make themselves feel more attractive, and the desire for a fulfilling relationship.
Yellow fever only gets complained about because Asian women have such low social desirability that losers go for them, and even these “losers” will jump at a chance to upgrade to a White woman. They know this and so they attack whatever Asian or Eurasian guy they can find to make it seem like they’re somehow better in comparison.
There are a ton of hapa men who think they’re God’s gift to women (I used to think like this) and look like some variation of Elliot Rodger. Short, smirking, slightly effete. They inherit their mothers’ tiny frames, dark thick hair, like I did, despite my father being 6’3″.
These guys uniformly heavily rely on Asian women (the ugliest ones) for their ego boosts (I never did, because hearing “so handsome” from Asian women is an insult due to race relations in western society; i.e., it’s not a compliment). If it wasn’t for Asian women, most hapa men would be more violent than Elliot Rodger. Asian women seem incapable of even telling the difference between a handsome white person and a hideous one, and Asian men actually fit more into western male standards of attractiveness and would do more so if not for racism.
This gimmick usually only lasts a few years until Asian women realize marrying a hapa male means full Asian looking sons and drop them for a white male. The current batch of hapa sons is still too young to take the full brunt of the hatred Asian women have for Asian looking men, and the hapas who are older generally settle down with horribly ugly Asian women, or in some cases black women – which enrages their mothers and their racist white fathers.
Or these same Hapa men rely on the very few white women that will take a half Asian guy with a huge ego and stick up his ass; these women are incredibly limited because most white women see half Asian men the same as full Asian men. Hence Elliot Rodger.
Moreover, most Half Asian men are brainwashed by their Asian mothers to only go Asian, and brainwashed by their Asian mothers to feel as if they are not good enough for anything but Asian women, as a way to protect their Asian mothers’ ego as being “attractive,” when Asian women are only as attractive as the desperate, low status white men who want them.
Find me a half Asian celebrity with a hot girlfriend. They don’t exist. Most like Jon Hamilton are permasingle. Others are perpetually humiliated guys like Jon Gosselin.
Look at this footballer who is hot shit in Thailand of all places. This is literally the best he can do:
At least he’s not dating an Asian woman though. So I guess that says something.