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Read this post on /r/Hapas – the biggest Half Asian website of all time, which received 970,000 views in a single month.
The post is a Half Asian girl grilling her Asian mother about what kind of man she wants her daughter to marry; then questioning her Asian mother about her Asian looking brother.
Here ya go!
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I was super apprehensive after stumbling upon this subreddit. But…yall are actually on to something. Especially if its a WMAF.So anyway I wanted to test this with my own mom. I asked her what kind of man she would want me to marry one day. She responded with, “A white man. You look white anyway.” I pressed on and asked her why not an Asian man. She grew kind of irritated and asked me why it mattered. She eventually said “Asian men don’t like white girls anyway. It is just better to marry a white guy.”I asked her which she would prefer Id marry: an asian or a black guy. She had to think about her response much longer this time. But eventually said black.I always loved being mixed. I don’t believe I look completely white passing, although I would say I lean toward looking more white than asian. I never realized it but as a younger girl, especially early teen years, I would purposely try to look more white. At the time I never really thought about WHY I wanted to look more white; it was just something I did as I saw my mother lighten her skin, dyed her hair, got colored contacts etc.Damn. I’m really not trying to adopt my mom’s self hatred. Where do you go from here?
Her follow up.
Back with an update!Conversation didn’t go over so well. I asked what kind of woman she wanted my brother to marry, and without fail, said she wanted him to marry an asian women as they will “treat him better than white women”As for the suggestion of me marrying a hapa. She said hapa males come out looking too asian. She said it as if it was a bad thing which then prompted a long argument. I fiercely love my younger brother (he is 11 I am 22) and I had to step up and raise him when he was first born due to family issues.I brought up what this subreddit is all about. She said she wanted my brother to marry an asian women because they will ‘treat him better’, but I mentioned how is that possible when tons of asian women, like herself, disregard asian men. I didn’t expect her to give a well thought out answer of course. After accusing her she let me know what an ungrateful daughter I am and that I will not understand the struggle asian women face as I look ‘white enough’Taking my brother and gonna sleep back at my apartment tonight.