?”Like most Asian women, I prefer white men. My son won’t have problems. He won’t be Asian.”

Revamped post. Apologies to this fellow. It’s not about his looks – more about the suffering we half Asians have to endure.

“Small dick stereotypes won’t affect my son. He won’t have self esteem issues. He is better than the full Asian males my wife / girlfriend refused to see as potential partners. He will feel like a man growing up with a white father and an Asian woman who hated Asian men. He won’t have any problems dating. It’s about feminism! It’s all about feminism! Which is why half Asian guys despite having White dads are treated as non-sexual objects!”

As an Asian looking half Asian male, you have pretty limited options.

  • Believe your mom when she tells you you’re the most handsome, you’re a sweet little Eurasian boy, you just need to go to school to be treated as equal to white males. Ignore open racism and just “pretend” that your mother (and all her sisters) was different because she put food on your table. Become a thirty year old virgin before settling as another Asian girl’s second choice. Most Hapa males know that Asian women want a white man first, but failing that, they can get the next best thing – a substitute, counterfeit white male – a Eurasian son.
  • Go gay. (And take a white lover). Again, not always a conscious choice, but one that I believe may be influenced by the male child’s emasculation by birth. Imagine looking like an Asian boy watching women who look like you pretty much belong to white men, being openly supportive of a hierarchy that places big burly white men at the top, and men who look like you die alone. It can definitely influence your sexuality.
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(In before one of the usual full-Asian men comes in here telling me to suck it up. Your life is entirely different. You get laid? Congrats. You don’t endure the childhoods we do, whereby you actually have the mentalities and confidence required you to push through. Many of us are literally castrated sexually, emotionally and psychologically from birth.)

6 thoughts on “?”Like most Asian women, I prefer white men. My son won’t have problems. He won’t be Asian.”

  1. Hmmm… Relatively grey area with some truth. Going gay isn’t really a conscious choice. My son, being part Southeast Asian, tried to sit with Asian boys in middle school, but they would keep telling him, “You’re white!” He was afraid to tell me he was gay, fearing I’d disown him (I could never do that). As a baby, all ethnicities fawned over him (he was even a Southern California baby beauty king). When you talk about yourself looking for a white guy, my son prefers white men. In my case, I consider a Japanese singer the most handsome man in the world. He is, however, more the exception than the rule. I can’t tell you that what you say isn’t true because there is some truth to it. I didn’t go for a certain race, however. I went for the one who turned my head (the very first thing my brothers asked whenever they heard that a man was interested in me).☺


  2. If an Asian woman wanted to date a white man of course she would come to you.. after all YOU ARE WHITE YOURSELF because of your father….


  3. face it most of u cant get asian or white girls but theres another soultion then just going gay theres more races out there theres blacks,mexicans,native americans for starters but for euroasian guys i preffr the half black half white girls becuz they go through simmalerr situations


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