Being biracial is an incredibly complex issue, especially considering when the majority of biracial people tend to fall along similar lines of parentage. It is oxymoronic for any bi-racial group to develop a healthy identity when it is saturated with latent implications of racial-gendered superiority and inferiority.
(In layman’s terms, do you really expect millions of Hapas, born overwhelmingly to parents who thought Asian men unattractive – let’s be honest, that’s what’s going on, and surrounded by Asian women who hate Asian men, are going to be normal?)
Hypothesis: The frequency of the relationships between White males and Asian women (as opposed to the infrequency of the relationship between Asian men and White women) is primarily based on the uniform higher status, higher economic standing or biological desirability of white men…
…the intentional or unintentional universal undesirability or lower status of Asian males – explaining the monumentally unbalanced interracial dating ratios. Eurasian sons, in particularly, are largely considered Asian men and fail to benefit from the social and sexual freedom (i.e., not being stereotyped as misogynist and / or asexual) their fathers had, unless they are extremely lucky, and live with the baggage of a peculiar kind of pairing that is weighed with heavy sociological implications.
Regardless of any politicized or non-politicized belief, politically correct or not, the fact remains from both empirical evidence provided by Eurasians (not by white men or Asian women), and data aggregated by /r/Hapas, that Eurasians are still constantly reminded that they are of less value than white men, even by women who will someday become future mothers to Asian looking Eurasian sons and even by the men who themselves are the fathers to Asian looking Eurasian sons.
This website is apolitical. There is no right, no left here, no red-pill, no blue-pill and no agenda other than discussing the very blatant bias, and even outright hatefulness, that women, even Asian women, and men, even White men in relationships with Asian women, display towards Asian men, and the effect it has on the well being of the Eurasian looking children, who are left asking: Why? Who are we? Why are we?
If Asian women prefer white men, for whatever reason – Eurasian men are left with nothing but: A) Myths about the beauty of Eurasians which only applies a fraction of the time, and B) Having to accept that their phenotype is universally unwanted, as expressed by key members of his own family, and C) Having to accept a secondary role in an unspoken racial hierarchy that is clearly evident to anyone who looks vaguely Asian, and D) Having to accept two people who harbored overt, latent, or even non-vocalized racist views as parents, and E) Reassurance from their parents that “they were not like that,” “colorblind,” when in fact society consistently reminds us that color matters, and lastly F) A false narrative written by non-Hapas.
First and foremost, External Websites:
- A Cartoon for those Who Don’t Feel Like Reading
- halfasian.org / forums.halfasian.org
Evidence of the very real hatred of Asian Men / preference for whiteness as displayed by Asian Women, that logically, directly attacks the well being and self esteem of male children from these relationship.
- Famed Singaporean Blogger Xiaxue admitting that she wanted her son to look white
- Sharline Chiang: Over the next two decades I went on to date a lot of white guys (eventually I married a white guy). Still, I wasn’t white.
- “I don’t date Asian guys. I realise it’s racist, and that’s especially bad because I’m Asian too. I’ve been socially conditioned in Australia to see Asian guys as a different sort of prospect from non-Asian guys.”
- Esther Ku, comedian, calls Asian and half Asian men animals to 100,000 of her fans
- “My wife called our unborn baby ugly… I am furious, but got really angry to her. Bleh.”
- Xiaxue caught feminizing her hapa sons again and gets her eyelids done for a third time
- Tinder Experiments revealing closeted preference of Asian women for non-Asian men
- Margaret Cho, Asian female comedian, blatantly attacking Asian men
- Asian women screenwriters are even more insistent on putting WMAF into their films, and not having Asian male leads than White Men are.
- Post-Colonial Lust: A White-Guy Groupie Confesses
- “There are excellent IVF clinics in Taipei.” The group of Taiwanese women laughed at my naïveté. The reason she wanted the procedure done in the U.S… was that she wanted a “Caucasian” sperm donor. Contrary to my assumption, then, what this Chinese woman sought was not American medical science, but American genetic material.
- An Asian woman addresses the affect her hideous racist behavior will have on her Hapa sons by mocking what a beta virgin her own Eurasian son will be. And yes she is “real” with audio recordings of her racist rants.
- A Eurasian woman who “looks more Asian than her mother”, calls a white-worshiping Asian woman SICK. “What are you going to tell your future “hapa” son if he turns out to look very asian?”
- “I like white men because innately I’m racist. White men represent physical strength, good genetics, socio-influence advancement, global socio-economic status.”
- “another online dating study…the most pitiful results yet”
- WMAF couples go on talk show to discuss their preference for each other’s race. As expected they shit all over asian men and white women
- I just feel so sick having to imagine what their one year old son is going to have face, growing up with a white father and Asian mother who both look down on Asian men. Their son is going to grow up feeling like an Utter Piece of SHIT just because he’s an Asian male.
- LipStickAlley: “Even black women notice asian women only date ugly white guys”
- Conversation with Asian woman talking about how she hopes her sons are white
- Lipstick Alley: Asian woman who worships white men and would not date an Asian man, hopes for a Dean Cain hapa but ends up with a son who looks Asian like herself= Tragedy waiting to happen.” Post from Lipstick Alley, two months before Elliot Rodger
- “That’s pretty damn selfish man. You get to enjoy your “cute babies” but not one Eurasian guy I know really likes being Eurasian when he grows up in the West. Not one. They see their mother as rejecting all Asian men, wanting to be white, and their father as satisfying his exotic fetishism.” NSFW
- “I’m not Chinese, but I am Japanese. My son was born with deep blue eyes which eventually turned green. He’s 8 now. Lucky kid. LOL”
Evidence of the very real hatred of Asian men displayed by White Men in relationships with Asian women / Various Racist White Men Raising Eurasian Children.
- White Blogger, father to Asian looking Eurasian son, writes several articles disparaging the appeal and integrity of Asian men
- Same White Blogger Asks: What could be worse than being an Asian woman in Asia and having to surrender your mystical Oriental hotness to Asian men? In no other race – white, black, Hispanic – are the women so much better-looking than the son
- Should I tell my infertile Asian wife that I want all-white babies? Slate.com
- Friend drunkenly confessed the other night that he regretted having a half-Asian son. . “I feel fucking awful for saying this, but sometimes I look at him and it’s more like looking at an alien than at a son”.
- All the way back in 1999 Asiaphile George Winkel was concerned that the 1-drop rule would turn bright young Eurasians into little Al Sharptons against the white race
- John Derbyshire complains that despite giving his Eurasian daughter classical violin lessons starting at age 6, she enjoys hip hop music and is an anti-racist. “Nellie, with her well-practiced Uh-oh, Dad`s-in-racist-mode-again look of resignation and disgust”
- White guy in Japan who thinks he’s handsome tells Japanese women that while there are pretty Japanese women, there is no such thing as a handsome Japanese guy
- Reddit: “He’s afraid to have kids with me, because the children may not look like him.”
- I don’t find white women attractive, mainly because of their attitudes. I do however like asian women and I have a mixed son. The white men should get all the asian women and the asian men would rather go to a secret island with their buddies to drink beer and give hand jobs to eachother
- “This is for all you rice dicked losers
- The creator of the largest White Nationalist Nazi website, explains that marrying Asian women is the key to re-establishing the natural order of White Male Supremacy. Asian women are allies of White men, while White women are the enemies.
- The founder of the largest Nazi website points out that the Nazi attacking him for racemixing with Asians is a hypocrite- because he also racemixed with Asians. “he has several kids – who are coincidentally Asian, even while he attacks me for hanging out with Asian chicks”
- My wife is half Philipino. Her White father has several times made comments about “Rice is good for your eyes” and then proceeds to pull his eyes to a slant whenever my wife has eaten a rice dish etc etc. He hates the fact that she’s part Asian and has told me to “Breed the Asian out of her”
- Heartiste: Red Pill PUAs once again debate whether its “beta” to mate with the easiest race of women. On the one hand they are not as challenging as Western Women, but OTOH you are stuck with virgin sons from the most beta race.
- Stormfronter: “Just because I myself have a half Japanese son doesnt mean that any half Japanese would get my vote, even assuming the other parent was white. I lived in Japan for years before becoming a white nationalist.”
On the fetishization / imbalance / stereotyping / anti-social behavior that occurs within the White Male / Asian woman relationships
- “My mother accused my father of being a racist who doesn’t care about Chinese culture. He accused her in turn of only marrying him out of rebellion, not love. Both are probably correct to a certain degree.”
- Peter Scully, creator of the most horrifying deep-web video “Daisy’s Destruction, deliberately sought out Asian women
- Youtube: “White guy talking about Filipino ex-wife: “I just wanted a sex slave and a housekeeper”
- Biological Problems with Mixed-Race Families, Marriages Relationships & Adoptions
- Reddit: “hapa kids and my aunt, shocked and feeling helpless”
- The trend became especially popular in the 1970s, during the feminist movement in the U.S., when American women became “uncontrollable”and pamphlets that Asians were submissive and completely oriented to serve as wives captured American men’s imagination, Yuh says.
- I’m glad we got divorced. I am now raising our two Eurasian children in Australia. My Japanese ex-wife’s violent side was terrible. I couldn’t stand her lies anymore, or her neglect to our Eurasian sons. It was a very bitter experience
- Youtube: Creeper caught filming up skirts of Asian women (Also married to an Asian woman)
- “The scary part of my story is that it’s common and I’ve seen similar behavior in other Eurasian families. People do not understand what many Eurasian children have to go through, unless you specifically tell them what your parents said to you, and what they did to you.”
- 2001: Hapa Male Growing Up in Hick Town. My White father was one of these ugly unattractive people who couldn’t find anyone to love him so he brought my Asian mother here
- 2000: My mother came to the United States in her late 20s. She is from Taiwan, and she met my father, a white, southern Baptist (redneck), at the University of South Carolina. they had a hard time starting out. She was an Asian after all, didn’t exactly respect her because of her race.
- Crazed White father ‘who carved PENTAGRAM into six-year-old Hapa son’s back in honor of 12-12-12 then smeared the Eurasian boy’s blood on his door’
- /r/Relationships: “A few days after my Eurasian son was born my Japanese wife screamed at him, called him “stupid” and “idiot” and “baka” and yelled about how much she hated him. As he grew, she started hitting him and kicking him.”
- MultiAsianFamilies: “[She] never told the son who was crippled by polio about her relationship with his father. All she said was that the man was an American, a sergeant in the Army. He was one of the thousands of GIs who left children behind as victims of the conflict”
- Daily Mail: The Hapa children of a Red Light District in the Phillipines
- Chinese woman married to a convicted pedophile decide to give up their hapa son that they got via surrogate mother in Thailand because he has down syndrom and only keep the daughter instead.
- I am half white but I do feel disconcerted that all the Asian women in my family are married to white men despite living in an Asian area and attending predominantly Asian universities. ..And yeah I have found that being even half Asian is a complete turn off to a lot of girls. I think I am a good looking guy but even my less attractive Caucasian friends get more attention from girls.
- Divorced White Dad uses his Half East Asian son as a tool to hit on Asian women, while also putting down Asian men to them.
On the high value of Asian women in Western society and the low value of Asian men in Western society, and how little concern is given to the plight of the children when both parties are immune to blatant discriminations.
- Revealing Podcast: Listen to the Asian girl host’s reaction at 6:30min mark especially
- Maya Lin (architect of the Vietnamese Wall Asian killing memorial), having grown up as an Asian minority, has said that she “didn’t even realize” she was Chinese until later in life, and that it was not until her 30s that she had a desire to understand her cultural background
- “My biracial sons are turning out to be quite Asian looking. I can’t help but wonder what life would be like for them had they looked more white, like their dad…. hoped that they would come out a racial melange. What if they looked straight Chinese, like me?”
How Asian Women Will Systematically Discriminate Against Asian Men, Until They Have Half Asian Sons and Try to Renege on Their Hatred
- I’ll still want my son to know Chinese because it’s who he is; he’s half Chinese. I fear if he loses the language, he’ll lose a part of himself. And so, I continue to wage battle every day to protect a king that I myself once overthrew.
Data on self destructive and mental states of Eurasian people / Complications involving WMAW Pregnancies
- Hapa adolescents more likely get regularly drunk, smoke, commit suicide, from NAPAfASA
- Asian-white couples face distinct pregnancy risks, Stanford/Packard
- Biracial Asian/White candidates were perceived as significantly less warm and competent than their monoracial counterparts.”
- UC Davis Peer Reviewed Study: “34 percent of biracial individuals in a national survey had been diagnosed with a psychological disorder” __________________________________
Antisocial Hapas in the News
- Elliot Rodger; “More incidents from the official police report on Elliot Rodger; that reveal how his Eurasian background and racial insecurities lead him to demonstrate a pathological hatred for Asian Men and White Women”
- Daniel Holtzclaw, White Father, Asian Mother; “The Rape Trial That Everyone in America should be Watching
- Hideki Irabu, New York Yankees player, son of a White Father and Japanese Mother, spent his final days before suicide lost, without purpose
- More on Hideki Irabu
- Aaron Ybarra, 2012 Seattle University Shooter
- Arthur Patterson, responsible for 1997 murder in Burger King in Itaewon
- Unnamed Eurasian potential school shooter in “The Risk of School Rampage” by Eric Madfis
- JP Blanchard, 17 year old Eurasian student who committed suicide in 2009
- Poom Jensen, autistic was the son of the king of Thailand’s eldest daughter, Princess Ubolratana Rajakanya, and her American (former) husband Peter Ladd Jensen; killed during 2004 tsunami
- Alex McGregor is Half Taiwanese and half Australian. “He doesn’t have friends. He finds it hard.”
- 2015: Justin Nojan Sullivan, half Asian who attempted to join ISIS to kill thousands.
- *2014: Matthew DeGrood, responsible for Calgary’s worst mass murder *
- 2014-2015: Mattress Girl
- Kelly Wang, aka, Mayli, Georgetown educated daughter of banker who went on to do Facial Abuse video for two hundred dollars.
- 2013: David Renz, Pedophile who Stabbed a Mother During Attempted Rape of Daughter
- Jeffrey T. Johnson, 2012 Empire State Building Shooter**
- 2014: Isabella Yun Guzman, Stabbed Her Mother 151 Times
- 2015: Eric Bloss, Berkley Graduate, son of White Father and Chinese Mother, attempted murder
On the reality of looking Asian as a Eurasian male; Proof that White Looking Hapas Have Privilege
- Zach Schwartz, Vice Magazine journalist, does an AMA regarding the undesirability of Asian men and Asian looking Eurasian men.
- Post that got Razib Khan fired as NY Times Op Ed writer: 5/23/00- most intelligent Eurasian men might also be the most “nerdish” as Mr. Sailer would say. This would make it rather more difficult for them to attract high status “blondes.”
- Hapa in Sweden complains about being socially aloof and unwanted by society
- If you need to take one thing away from /r/hapas it should be this
- Growing up with an Asian mother and a white father, he explained that the perception of Asian maleness in his community was one of “complete inferiority.”
- “I grew up ashamed that being Asian I was ugly. I didn’t have my first girlfriend until I was 19 because of that,” Sarchet says. Sarchet is half-white but identifies as Asian. He is an offspring of a white dad from the Air Force and a first-generation Taiwanese immigrant.
- Zach Schwartz writes about being the Asian looking son of a white man and Asian woman, Vice Magazine
- A woman observes that while Eurasian girls are accepted, Eurasian boys are made outcasts because they are not white. In addition they are raised by Asian moms with values that make them unsuited for white society.
- Why Looks Don’t Matter as a Eurasian
- Reddit: “half Asian males exhibiting violent and erratic behavior that stems heavily from their lack of clear racial and masculine identity due to the Asian mother and white father’s inability to understand their son’s situation.”
- 2007 Poetry: “Half Asians carry in their physical features / The burdens that EVERY “Asian American” carries / Embodied in their HALF-slanted eyes”
- 2011: “the Y chromosome is incomplete, so a male AMWW hapa will objectively have more Asian phenotypes than the other three types of possible Asian-white mixed children. a male WMAW hapa in contrast will have the least. And yes, this is rather ironic.”
- 2005: eurasian guys are stuck in the middle…singaporean girls don’t want them because they are not caucasian enough and caucasian girls don’t want them because they are not completely asian or completely caucasian.
- I am half German, half Korean. I experience racial slurs and bullying from everyone around me for looking different. I have, and will always, be treated like a second class citizen all because my white father was selfish enough to have kids with an Asian woman.
- Reddit: I feel so much pain and suffering. I’m a 25 year old half asian/half white guy. I live in North America and have lived my whole life celibate. I feel like no one finds me atractive… feel like race plays apart)
- In high school my best friend was half Asian half white, and he would always tell me of all the problems he had fitting in. . In Freshman year of college he killed himself and in his suicide note he said multiple times how he hated being a half breed
- Reddit: “I’ve given up telling women I’m half-Asian, as they seem pretty hostile to the notion. Girls have called me Jackie Chan’s bastard son, act surprised I speak English . I find random women staring at me frowning quite a bit.”
- Blog: “An Asian-“American” woman supports the boycott of American Women, by White MRAs. Now Western women are boycotting her Eurasian sons.”
- How Can Euro-Asian Males Build Self-Esteem?
- Gaijinpot: It is also well known that many half Japanese children, rejected by white chicks and weakened by their Japanese mothers who… make them wet, unassertive and drippy end up marrying another Japanese women. All evidence of your white genes will have been wiped out.
- “almost every half-Korean I know goes through some kind of identity crisis. White people never consider me to be white. Even though I’m just as much white as I am Korean, they… always bring up something about me being Asian.”
- “I’ll admit as a half-korean I also too sometimes feel negative when I see a ton of white-male asian-female couples, because they remind me of my parents.”
On the Subject of Eurasian Women and Their Sexualization / Fetishization by White Men
- Julie felt that she and other Hapas only exist because their Asian mothers were the object of a fetish for Oriental exoticism
- I am half German, half Korean. I experience racial slurs and bullying from everyone around me for looking different. I have, and will always, be treated like a second class citizen all because my white father was selfish enough to have kids with an Asian woman.
- ‘Chop Chop Chinaman’ Defaced by Insulted [Hapa] Woman, but Restaurant Defends Name. Harrell, who is half-Japanese, snapped a photo to post later on Twitter and walked away. Harrell, 26, was charged with misdemeanor criminal damage to property
- I hate my Hapa face because I look just like my White father, whom single-handedly destroyed my childhood and has left me with a nightmare set of traumatic memories. my Asian mother doesn’t love me because I don’t look like her
- “trying to come to terms;my bitter, angry past (a work in progress)”
- to future parents of eurasian children, from your eurasian daughter
- A Eurasian girl’s Asian mom tells her to accept being called a Chink slave whore by white guys. “I told her to quit,” said her mother, Lily Huang. “I told her you can’t fight people like this, in the jungle.”
Various Hapas / Eurasians speaking the truth about WMAW relationships and being a Eurasian
- Discussion on comments by Self-Hating Eurasian Woman’s now deleted video
- U. of Michigan Press: On Pages 201-202 a Eurasian woman calls on Hapas to question the basis of their very existence and how they are tied in to US imperialism in Asia. She feels that Eurasians only exist because of the Oriental exotic fetish. Hapa men also have the White Male mindset of objectifying Hapa women.
- I’m half asian, and pretty much any time I see an internet dating ad, it almost always says something to the extent of ‘No Asians’. it’s still discouraging when from the outset it seems they have a preset discrimination against those who have Asian blood.
- Eurasian male concerned that he is at the bottom of the gay hierarchy of attractiveness
- I’m 16 and i’m half asian. I’m thinking about coming out after highschool when I get to college but i’m concerned that other gay guys wouldnt find me attractive.
- Welcome to the world of being a second generation half-Korean, Born out of 2 Half Koreans. This is what happens when I visit my parents. Yep! Both of them! They were basically war babies from the Korean War between American soldiers and Korean Women.
- Being Hapa: Facing Racial discrimination on multiple fronts
- Reddit/r/Hapas: I am a first generation Korean American child that came from an abusive family with mixed values.
- “I knew mixed Koreans growing up. One mixed Korean was a half white /Korean guy. He looked really Korean and grew up in Ohio. His white father couldn’t understand him or help him…nor can his Korean mom. Long story short ..he ended up on drugs and seeing therapy.”
- “The hapa son who hates his white dad and Asian mom”
- /r/Japan: “I’m half Japanese and grew up in Japan, and I’m the product of a relationship like this. Seen first hand what a timid father marrying a strong willed and not submissive Japanese mother is like. nerds and losers end up fetishizing Asian girls as smart and submissive and willing to date nerds.”
- Eurasian spends almost a decade refusing to be seen with Chinese mom in public
- Youtube: “Perhaps my most thought-provoking vlog; a rant on asian stereotypes that I’ve dealt with throughout my life…and I’m only HALF-ASIAN!”
- “I’m a Filipino mestizo living in the United States. My mother is Filipino, and my father is English.My entire life, I have been an outsider everywhere I went.”
- “I know many half-Asian males that killed themselves because girls did not want them because of the fact that multi-cultralism makes Asian males look inferior.”
Articles by Hapas with Asian fathers, as opposed to those with Asian mothers
- Dean Van Nguyen, Vietnamese Father, Irish Mother, “Half-white, half-Asian but no less Irish, Irish Examiner
- CSMonitor: “AMWF Hapa girl writes a memoir about the actual persecution her family had to endure in 1980s America. Her parents are heroes to her.”
Examples of posts from Hapas from Asian fathers and White Mothers Either Explaining the Differences or Condemning Hapas
- An AMWF Hapa Son explains the differences between Eurasians born to Asian Moms and White Moms.
- Would someone help a confused Eurasian who wants to know what the hell’s going on?
- Reasons for differences between AMWF children and WMAF children
- Study comparing AFWM and AMWF marriages and their effects on children
Various Opinion Posts
- White males / Asian females is based on white supremacy, plain and simple
- The message from WMAF is clear. We don’t owe our kids any of the privileges we enjoyed. It’s society that has to change not us (yet we utilize our privilege to the fullest. To have orgies, to buy wives that are 50 years younger than us and to feel superior over people of our own race)
- “The whole “be glad you are at least Half White and not full Asian” line of argument is completely inapplicable to at least 70% of Eurasians. For those Asian-looking Eurasians, being half white does them no benefits in life, but just reminds them of how universally undesired Half-Asian males are.”
- “The Problem with Preferences”
White Women On /r/Hapas Expressing Concern for Half Asian Children, and Subsequent Discussion
- As a white woman in a serious relationship with my very sexy full asian man, this sub is enough to scare any serious relationship away.
- What’s the best way for me help my hapa half-brothers?
- Subs for mother of hapa daughter?
- Our Interracial Family AMWW: The Kids Will Be All Right
Asian Women On /r/Hapas Expressing Concern for Half Asian Children, and Subsequent Discussion
Nothing here yet.
Anecdotal evidence of the actual feminization of Hapa sons (What started as an in-joke apparently seems to be occurring in real life, given the low value and sexual confusion of Eurasian men).
- Hapa Forum has a thread on the list of Hapa porn stars. They are disappointed to learn that the ONLY Hapa MALE porn star is a gay bottom. “so the only male is gay, thats kinda dissapointing, eh?”
- The first transgender woman to compete in a Miss California pageant is Kylan Wenzel, who is also half-Korean! As the representative for Century City, Kylan is an activist and supporter of LiNK, which brings awareness to the Human Right Crisis in North Korea.
- The Founder of Hapas.com underwent a Sex Change Operation
- LEFT BY THE SHIP, documentary about forgotten Hapa children of fillipina women and US servicemen.
- Mixed Race Dancers Looking For Their Fathers in the Philippines
Examples of Fake Hapas / Trolls / White Men Posing as Asian women to Undermine /r/Hapas and Various Attempts to Stifle Any Criticism of WMAW By Eurasians
- “Positive HAPA” /u/hapa1995 once again proven to be a white guy with Asian kids
- “The attempt to de-legitimize angry Eurasians is not new. This popular Eurasian blogger was accused in 2010 of trying to stir up hate between Eurasians and Whites, and not being Eurasian, despite posting photo proof”